I think Katy’s comment above is ridiculous. It’s totally normal for males to have a functional sex drive their entire lives.
It might be normal for women to lose sex drive as they age but expecting your spouse who still has a sex drive to become a celebrate monk for the rest of their lives is beyond selfish.
If Katy really hates sex so much and doesn’t want to do it, she should free her spouse to have sex with other people.
But i’m suspecting she wouldn’t be willing to do that but instead will just expect her husband to just suffer in silence.